Have you ever heard the same song at two very different points in your life?
“Main raazi apni zaat toh/ Main utte apni aukaat toh/ Eh duniya meri fikaar nahi/ Main samajh gayi haar baat nu” (I am satisfied with my being; I am above my worth; I have understood the world is not my concern.)
As we skimmed through the traffic in Karachi, I played this forgotten song, listening to it for the first time again. Where previously it spoke of hope as I maneuvered my way through life, holding to prayer and patience and “Rabbi inni lima anzaltu illa min khayrin fakeer,” ( My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need) it now felt like a declaration of reward. Reward of hard work, of believing in my crazy ideas and not bothering with “loag kya kahyn ge?” (What will people say?) of sketching my own timeline, of perseverance, and of faith.
Receiving the Global Student Award for Excellence in Impact and Innovation at Aga Khan University’s Global Convocation 2024 has been an honor that has mirrored how perseverance and faith will pay off. It’s a reminder to myself that no matter how many times I had to hear, “You’re wasting your degree by not choosing the clinical side!” the deaf ear that I had to turn was worth it. It’s all of that and a whole lot of prayers from some of the people closest to me. It’s all of that and the unconditional support of my parents and sister, who never once questioned my decision to sway from the road oft taken and then opt for another territory unheard of as I chose health entrepreneurship to work for the mental well-being and quality of work life of our healthcare providers. But as I glance back, I’m humbled to be able to see how being sensitive to the struggles of my colleagues led to the eventual realization that a life like theirs will not keep me smiling for long. And that gave me the courage to pursue a health innovation fellowship at Aga Khan University, where, as I explored the different ways in which innovation may be defined in a healthcare setting, I chose a masters in health policy and management with the motivation to graduate with a dissertation that would be the stepping stone towards a more compassionate healthcare system. From excitedly expressing this to the two interviewers in the admission committee, to convincing a thesis committee that was very supportive, from a very long data collection process that coincided with my wedding preparations to the small gasp that escaped me as I heard my name being announced as the awardee for Excellence in Impact and Innovation, I see the ease that came with each hardship. I see each prayer coming true. I celebrate how my plans did not work out but His did.
This award is not merely an award. It’s the beginning of Rufayda – Care for Healthcare. It is more than just an acknowledgement of innovation; it is also an investment in the future health of healthcare providers. It’s a small step towards a big vision.
And so, as I hear the soulful voice of Abida Parveen again, I feel nothing but gratitude for not being in control. I feel nothing but awe at how He fills our lives with miracles. Starting out this new chapter of my professional life, I feel nothing but an easy surrender to His will and His plans, because, as this kalaam goes:
“Jo hai tera labh jayega/ Karke koyi bahana/ Tere bas mein kujh Vi nahi ae/ Dil nu eh samjhawan”. (If I get all the happiness, there will be nothing left behind; I explain to my heart that nothing is in my hands.)